如何成为一个好的女朋友你的男朋友高级

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How to Be a Good Girlfriend to Your Senior Boyfriend

四月布拉斯韦尔
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不管你叫他你的男朋友,显著等,合作伙伴或伴侣,如果你想知道如何成为一个好的女朋友是时候更新你的约会规则书作为一个资深的女人。那些古老的准则,当你年轻的大多数人跟随现在已经不适用。

不管你是什么情况(即离婚或你爱的人去世了),这里是帮助一些提示你充分利用你的女朋友状态:

1. Plan Some Dates Yourself

当然,在早期的日期,他很可能是一个有点传统绅士的和规划的一切。然而,你的第三个月在一起,一定要plan some datesyourself to show him you care.

Google “fun things to do in my area” or check Facebook Events to see what looks entertaining, enriching, and stimulating. Try to put some variety into your dates. One challenge many seniors face — but is true for couples of any age — is allowing your relationship to slip into a rut. Be a great senior girlfriend by infusing some fresh activities and adventures into your life together. Freshness and fun nourish romance!

2. Be Interesting

继续阅读的书籍。探索世界。去骑自行车。出席剧场。包野餐,去公园。溜冰鞋在冬季。庆祝你的城市的衣锦还乡。不管是什么,不断挑战自己。如果你的生活,每天晚上看着沙发上的电影,你需要站起来,动起来,并得到出门。

成熟的情侣的照片在草地上铺设

Keep learning new things and picking up new skills — that will make you interesting.

高级男装被吸引到妇女谁interesting in and of themselves。他们发现智力和你有你自己的利益刺激。当然,学习一些新的美味食​​谱为他做饭会让他觉得在家里与你快乐了。

3. Make Plans for the Future

务必plan a future together。不再是你的生活集中在攀爬career ladder. Instead, it’s time to get off that ladder and rethink how you two want to live your lives after 50 and in retirement.

Many senior couples envision traveling. Will it be across the States? Do you want to do philanthropic trips? Study programs on location? There are numerous options at all different price points.

Be sure that you suggest and share your dreams with him and ask that he share his dreams with you. Many men have spent years devoted to their careers, and they haven’t had the room to voice their hopes and aspirations outside of work. Share yours and seek out his. And then listen, affirm, and encourage!

4.欣赏他

我可以写这个话题一整本书。每个人都渴望简单地通过他的女人的奇妙的人,他确实是可以看出。他做的每一件小事是来照顾你coupledom。以垃圾了。保持你的门。对待你的孩子好。爱你们两个在一起的宠物。

赞扬他。Appreciate him verbally。让他看到你的笑容点亮你的脸。你是唯一一个谁拥有特殊的能力,看他wonderfulness并反映回给他。

5. Talk Positively About Him in Front of Others

当你们两个是周围的其他人,告诉他们你爱你的男朋友高级的东西。你的赞美之词将意味着世界给他。

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我们都需要听到自己客气话飘飞。

Whether Words of Appreciation is his primaryLove Languageor not, he’ll probably eat it up. Men feel masculine and fulfilled when their woman shows appreciation and gratitude in front of others.

6.在门口检查你的行李

试着离开你以前的爱情在过去和not talk about them too much。你的男朋友知道你过去有关系,所以有他。但你们两个真的要每星期重提那些感情吗?

Instead, any hard feelings you may still harbor about your ex, share them with a trusted girlfriend, your book club, or your therapist. But not your senior boyfriend. He doesn’t want to hear it, and it doesn’t stimulate the romantic sizzle between you two.

On the flip side, if you’re widowed like I am, your senior boyfriend also probably doesn’t want to always hear about how amazing your late husband was. Of course, it’s perfectly fine to talk about him every now and then or even share your feelings if it’s the anniversary of his death.

只是不要让这些话题所有对话的焦点。这是放气气球那是你的新关系的快捷方式。

7. Be Kind to Him

随着我们年龄的增长,最有吸引力的人的性格属性之一是好意。当有人打开当我们在杂货正背着门大家都明白吧,我们滴过手术,伴随着我们与狗散步,只是帮助我们,在一般。

当谈到在关系之中,你会与他的成年子女,父母,和他的朋友进行交互。Cultivating kindness将有助于你从长远来看。爱和善良是持有高级关系连接在一起的粘合剂。另外善良让我们对我们的高级男友为队友更具吸引力。

8. Let Him Know You’re Attracted to Him

性爱是50后的不同。He may be experiencing erectile dysfunction, while you may be having some libido shifts. However, that doesn’t mean you two can’t still please each other.

与您的医生研究一些医疗选择网上和阅读有关的高级性的书籍,甚至可能参观性治疗师。

Photo of mature couple in bed

Even though sex is probably different now than it was when you were younger, it doesn’t mean you two still can’t have it.

最重要的是,让他知道你还是找他如此有吸引力,他会为你做同样的。我们都需要一点鼓励,并接受实物,从我们的合作伙伴浪漫性感的话飘飞进我们的自尊。

A Great Senior Girlfriend Makes a Great Senior Wife

Kindness, appreciation, and gratitude matter now more than ever before in life. Not only will having these traits help you be a good girlfriend to your senior boyfriend, but having these traits will alsohelp nourish your own happinessand enhance your well-being. It’s a win-win!