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Honey mood period and finding about things in thier past

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    j.pearson1976
    j.pearson1976
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    June 8, 2020 at 1:03 pm #234752
    Honey mood period and finding about things in thier past

    OK here goes

    1. I met someone and we are well in honey period and she DOES like me that is a no brainer, plus I like here (5 mon)
    2. While discussing things she told me about some past events and that she did NOT sleep with them – fine (earlier weeks)
    3. Few weeks later she tells me when drunk that she did infract sleep with them and one of them on numerous occasions – fine she now tells me
    4. Yep she does really like me too much she is telling me too much detail and wants to tell me truth and when we met in beginning she didn’t want to say full story -fair enough and she is honest and tell me now. OK I get that.
    BUT
    1. The guy was a complete idiot and was seeing someone at the time and she knew fine well at the time.
    2. They had sex outside in a park (something I have not done)
    3. She lied at the beginning

    What should I do? The part that gets me is the lie at the beginning and also the part the guy was seeing someone else and loves himself! I really don’t know what to do?

    j.pearson1976
    j.pearson1976
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    June 8, 2020 at 1:04 pm #234753

    Should this be a deal breaker and how can I fix this?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    June 8, 2020 at 9:59 pm #234757

    “she DOES like me that is a no brainer…”

    Are you actually in a “romantic relationship” whereby you’re dating, making out, or having sex?
    If the answer is (no) you’ve probably slipped into the “friend zone” without knowing it.

    {Some of what you wrote sounds a lot more like two people just “hanging out”.}
    When someone is “into you” they strive to (impress) you and try to avoid doing anything that might “blow it”.
    On the other hand if they see you as just being a “platonic friend” they’ll show you warts and all.

    Are YOU Asking her about her past sexual adventures? or Is she simply throwing it out there on her own?
    这么说吧,如果她和你一个“迷恋”nd (trying to win your heart) she wouldn’t be volunteering this kind stuff.

    At any rate after a person reaches a certain age it seems a little immature to hold someone’s sexual past against them.
    Just because she’s had sex outside in the park and you haven’t doesn’t mean anything.
    Getting jealous over “ghost lovers” in her past is silly.