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Do I Tell Her?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    kamdynclark
    kamdynclark
    Participant
    January 2, 2020 at 8:41 pm #227209
    Do I Tell Her?

    I’ve had a crush on my best friend for about a year now. She got out of a relationship with a guy about a month ago, and since then, she’s been super touchy with me (hugging, falling asleep on my shoulder, etc) and kind of flirting with me (telling me she’s never had a new years kiss), but she is kind of a flirty person. Last night, she expressed to me that she thinks she might be bisexual. I want to tell her, but she is leaving in two weeks to study abroad. I’m going to visit her with a couple of other friends this week, so, if I tell her, I don’t know if I should text and tell her before, or tell her in person. Please help!!

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    January 4, 2020 at 2:29 pm #227286

    No! It’s way too soon.

    首先,大量的直女的是棘手的感情丰沛/亲热彼此。
    When she told you she might be bisexual you should have asked her why she believes so.
    Sometimes women will launch into a tirade after breaking up with a guy but it doesn’t mean they’re ready to take a leap.

    Secondly you’ve know her for a year now and yet you wait until she’s about to {go abroad} to make your feelings known.
    There’s a good chance you are “romanticizing obstacles” rather than seeing things as they (really) are.

    At this point there has been no dating or courtship between you two and now she’s preparing to leave the country.
    这是不现实的,你想象你俩会爱上并维持数月/年,长途关系。
    If you’re going to tell someone you like them at least make sure there is ample (time) to explore the possibilities together.
    Right now it sounds like you’re in the military about to be deployed looking to have someone to hold onto.

    MK2014
    MK2014
    Participant
    June 7, 2020 at 3:27 am #234716

    你可以去任何一种方式。但要确保你保护你自己的感受。如果你留在她身边安静最终她开始别的约会某人,你会受到伤害。所以,如果你决定不告诉她,然后还自己拉开距离,所以你没得到情感上更附...。如果你告诉她,她不喜欢你,它可能毁了友谊。我看到它的生活的方式是短..对于..但告诉她一的方式,是不是有需要或令人毛骨悚然。祝你好运

    MissPaxley
    MissPaxley
    Participant
    2020年6月8日在上午9:55 #234736

    Before you decide to tell her about how you feel, make sure to ready yourself for the consequences. I mean, she will either accept or reject your feelings and you must be prepared for it. One thing tho, it will be better if you’ll tell her in person. It’s too hard to pretend that you don’t like someone who are always there for you. Been there, and even tho its not the result that I want, I’m still grateful for what I did cause it help me decide what should I do next.